Boring Money Moves That Actually Work - 40 Money Lessons at 40, Part 2

Mindset is important, but here’s the truth: without strong cash flow systems and habits, you’ll always feel like you’re spinning your wheels with money.

In Part 2 of my 40 Money Lessons at 40 series, I’m walking you through the practical routines that form the backbone of financial stability.

You’ll hear:

Why paying yourself first (even $25 at a time) guarantees your future gets funded
How to set up a monthly “money date” to check in without shame or stress
The life-changing peace of living one month ahead on bills
Why multiple bank accounts simplify money management and stop overdraft chaos
These aren’t flashy hacks — they’re the proven, boring-but-brilliant moves that build real wealth and lower money stress.

If you’ve been craving control over your finances, this episode is your blueprint for a rock-solid foundation.

You’ll walk away knowing:

Why paying yourself first flips the savings script (and why “leftover money” never works).
How a monthly money date can transform shame into clarity.
The underrated power of living one month ahead on bills — and the instant stress relief it creates.
Why multiple checking accounts aren’t obsessive, they’re smart structures.
How saving monthly for big expenses stops predictable bills from wrecking your budget.
The real cost of oversized housing — and how to keep it in check.
Why talking about money out loud is the fastest way to get unstuck.
And the 3-month pause rule that will save you from emotional, expensive mistakes.
Next episode, we’re talking protection — debt elimination, credit management, insurance. The shields that keep your financial house safe.