How to Break the Cycle of Dating the Wrong Guy!

Why You Keep Dating the WRONG Type (And How to Break the Cycle of dating the wrong guy)

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Hey everyone! Welcome back to The Deep Penetration Podcast, where I dive into self-esteem, dating, and thriving as your most authentic self. I'm Danny, your self-esteem and dating coach for Gay and Bisexual men.

In this episode, I'm breaking down why you keep dating the wrong type - emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or just plain not right for you. If you've ever found yourself stuck in the same toxic patterns, wondering why chemistry always seems to lead to heartbreak… you're not alone.

We'll explore the psychology behind these dating cycles, the hidden emotional wounds that fuel them, and the exact steps you can take to shift your patterns and start choosing people who are actually good for you.

💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✔️ Why you're attracted to emotionally unavailable people.
✔️ The difference between chemistry and compatibility.
✔️ How repetition compulsion plays out in dating.
✔️ The "fixer" mentality and how it sabotages your love life.
✔️ How to realign your dating habits with your relationship goals.

📊 LGBTQ+ Dating Insight:
📌 Many Gay & Bi men mistake intensity for intimacy.
📌 Dating apps reward short-term excitement over long-term connection.
📌 Unresolved childhood wounds often show up in our adult relationships.

💬 Reflective Questions to Ask Yourself:
1. Do you find yourself always playing the care giver role in a relationship?
2. Are you drawn to partners to prioritize their needs over yours?
3. Do your relationships tend to follow a similar trajectory?

Reference Article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...

🔥 DON'T MISS OUT-WATCH UNTIL THE END! I'm sharing a vulnerable story about being ghosted, how it forced me to confront my own dating patterns, and the mindset shift that helped me finally attract something real.

💬 QUESTION: What's one pattern you've noticed in your dating life that you want to break? Drop it in the comments below! ⬇️

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📌 Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:28 The Pattern of Dating the Wrong Type
03:56 My Experience with Dating the Wrong Type
06:13 Understanding Your Pattern of Attracting the Wrong Guy
10:14 How to Recognize the Red Flags & Change Your Pattern
11:43 Reflective Questions to Ask Yourself
12:32 The Steps to Changing Your Dating Luck
16:45 Recap