HOW DO WE ARGUE? Type 4 and 3 Marriage Tips!

Enneagram Type 4w5 husband and Type 3w4 wife answer YOUR relationship questions!
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TIME CODES:
0:00 Intro
0:26 Our Enneagram Pairing
0:50 Best advice for the 3 in a 3/4 relationship?
2:19 How do you emotionally connect?
2:30 Heart Triad
3:17 Do you think a 3 can truly understand a 4?
4:27 Is it difficult being with someone who can get so moody?
5:17 What are your biggest differences and how do they influence the relationship?
6:10 Jon’s MBTI Type (INFP)
6:40 Abbey’s MBTI Type (INFJ)
7:20 Sense of humor
7:24 Communication style
7:29 Travel style
8:00 Do your wings help you relate?
8:33 How do you handle the emotional/not emotional dynamic?
8:49 Prepare-Enrich Pre-Marital Counseling
9:10 Assertiveness (express your feelings and ask for what you want)
9:30 How Jon learned to be assertive
9:49 How do you balance your different definitions of success?
10:06 Type 4 definition of success
10:30 Type 3 definition of success
10:47 How do you deal with arguments?
11:35 Our favorite argument tip
12:12 Is the Type 4 goofy or always sad?
12:30 What motivates each of you to get stuff done?
12:36 Type 3 motivation / Laundry example
13:10 Type 4 motivation
13:42 What do you dislike about your types’ stereotypes?
13:45 Type 4 “Always Sad/Moody” Stereotype
14:29 Type 3 “Image-Obsessed/Superficial” Stereotype

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HOW DO WE ARGUE? Type 4 and 3 Marriage Tips!
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