Episode 23: Doing All the “Mum” Work Without the “Mum” Label: Majority Stepmumming & the Emotions...

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If you’re doing school runs, homework, dinners, emotional labour, logistics, planning, and comforting… yet still don’t get the “mum” label — this episode will speak straight to your heart. Connie shares what it’s really like to be a majority-care stepmum and the emotional weight that comes with carrying so much responsibility without the recognition that usually follows it.


In this episode, Katie talks to Connie, who has majority custody of her stepdaughter and a genuinely close, loving relationship with her. Connie opens up about the reality of taking on a mothering role, the pressure of high responsibility with low authority, and the complex mix of resentment, jealousy and grief that can surface — especially around the bio mum.


Katie and Connie have an honest, validating conversation about the emotional cost of majority stepmumming, the differences between relationships with step and biological children, and the bravery it takes to show up daily in a role that often isn’t acknowledged.


Thank you, Connie, for sharing your story with such honesty.


In This Episode We Explore:

• What it’s like to take on most of the “mum” work without the “mum” title
• The emotional toll of majority custody as a stepmum
• Why jealousy and resentment toward bio mum can feel overwhelming
• Differences in bonding with bio kids vs stepkids — and why it’s normal
• The pressure to be “all in” when the role isn’t truly yours
• How visibility, validation and boundaries can protect your wellbeing
• What helps when you feel unseen, unappreciated or sidelined

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Keywords:
majority stepmum, doing all the mum work, stepmum resentment, stepmum jealousy, stepmum doing everything, overwhelmed stepmum, blended family dynamics, stepmum emotional load, struggling stepmum, stepmum podcast, stepmum support


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Your work matters — even when you’re not given the title. You deserve support, recognition and space to take care of yourself too.


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