How Hard Conversations Create True Connection & Build Independence | Full-Tilt Parenting

Clinical psychologist Dr. Emily Kline joins me to unpack motivational interviewing, a powerful communication approach that shifts parents from “fixing” to truly connecting. We explore how to have tricky conversations about independence, hygiene, and responsibility in ways that respect kids’ autonomy and foster real collaboration. Emily shares practical tips from her book The School of Hard Talks to help parents build trust, open the door to change, and strengthen relationships with their teens and young adults.

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00:00 Introduction to Motivational Interviewing
05:49 Understanding Control in Parenting
11:19 Key Concepts of Motivational Interviewing
20:21 The Power of Reflection
22:43 The Art of Curious Questions
24:47 Transitioning to Problem Solving
28:48 Offering Advice Effectively
32:36 Building Connection Through Communication
34:30 Understanding Ambivalence in Kids
38:44 Practical Tips for Difficult Conversations
42:51 Encouragement for Parents
44:15 Resources for Further Learning

Show Notes for Episode 458
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