How To Get Revenge On Your Cheating Spouse

So your spouse has had an affair...and you are ANGRY. They broke your trust, your vows, and your heart.

You may be shocked. You may not know what to do next.

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Or maybe you know exactly what you want to do- get revenge on your spouse and make them feel the pain you’re feeling. While “punishing” your spouse may feel good in the moment, it will ultimately lead you to feel worse and push your spouse further and further away from you. How do we know this? We work with people in this situation every single day.

Those who have had to endure the incredible hurt of being cheated on felt like all they wanted to do was seek revenge and make their spouse pay for the emotional damage...but what they eventually found was that, more than anything, they wanted to get their marriage BACK. They hated the affair. They hated the hurt. But they still loved their husband. They still loved their wife. And if you’re watching this, you may feel the same way.

If you even a small desire to fix this relationship - then trying to get revenge will only push your spouse further away.

So what can you do? Are you supposed to just sit there and let this happen? Do you just wait for him or her to come back to you like a puppy? Does this mean you accept the affair and never speak about it again? Absolutely not.

Either way you should not have to live in this place of wanting revenge forever. It’s absolutely ok to feel angry and hurt… but the goal is to work on forgiving and moving past the hurt...to make you a better you. To be an overcomer. To become stronger. No matter what’s ahead. We teach you how to implement these things at Marriage Helper- through online courses, Marriage Coaching, and our marriage-saving Workshops. Give us a call. We’d love to help.

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