129: Nice-Guys Have An Attitude Problem When It Comes To Dating

The Silent Attitude That Keeps Nice Guys Stuck Single
You can have a great career, a solid brain, even a decent haircut…
But if you bring the wrong attitude into dating, you’ve already lost.
In this episode, Faisal, Ari, and Chuck go straight at a brutal truth:
Most Nice Guys don’t actually have a dating strategy problem.
They have an attitude problem.
Crushing it at work, solving complex problems, managing teams? No issue.
Put the same guy across from a woman he likes… and suddenly he’s:
Defeatist


Hyper-attached to “the one”


Terrified of rejection


Pre-rejecting himself before she even decides


In this episode, we unpack:
The “can’t-do” Nice Guy mindset that kills attraction before the first date


How oneitis (fixating on one woman) silently destroys your power and options


Why so many men want relationship results without the messy reps of dating


The trap of using women as validation instead of living like you’re the prize


Why comparing yourself to her exes (richer, taller, more ripped) is poison


How Nice Guys pre-reject themselves and broadcast insecurity without knowing it


The crucial shift from “Does she like me?” to “Do I actually like her?”


How to treat dating as a growth arena, not a chore or test you’re failing


Building a life so solid that a relationship becomes icing, not the cake


The uncomfortable truth?
Women aren’t the ones rejecting a lot of Nice Guys.
Most Nice Guys are rejecting themselves first — in their thoughts, their standards, and their attitude.
If you’re tired of the friend zone, ghosting, or feeling invisible…
If you’re done uninstalling and reinstalling dating apps like an emotional yo-yo…
This episode will help you reset where it really starts: your mindset.
Stop begging to be chosen.
Start becoming the man who chooses.
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And share this with the guy who keeps saying “dating sucks” but refuses to look in the mirror.