Love Money and Power : Who should pay in a relationship? | Episode 9

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Love is cute... but who is paying the bills?

In this listener-inspired episode, Yemi, Christine, and Faith dive deep into the ultimate relationship taboo: Money. We received a question from one of you asking: “In this modern world, who should be financially responsible? Is 50/50 the new normal, or is the traditional provider model still the blueprint?”

From the "myth" of equal splitting to the ego-bruising reality of women earning more, we aren't holding anything back. We explore how culture, religion, and the 2026 economy have shifted the goalposts for what a "fair" partnership looks like.

In this episode, we discuss:

The Death of the Blueprint: Does "Man Provides, Woman Nurtures" still work in 2026?
The 50/50 Myth: Is it actually fair if one partner earns 3x more than the other?
Power Dynamics: Does a woman lose respect for a man who contributes less?
Culture vs. Cash: Can a man be the "Head of the House" if he isn't the primary breadwinner?


[00:00] Intro & Unpacking the Listener's Relationship Money Question
[06:56] Why the 50/50 Financial Split is a Myth
[11:49] The Impact of Women Earning More on Relationship Dynamics
[20:34] Challenging the 'Head of the Home' Provider Narrative
[26:03] The Importance of Financial Transparency in Relationships
[33:25] Examining Cultural and Religious Views on Gender Roles
[43:46] Essential Advice for Dating When You Lack Financial Stability
[50:09] Cultivating Fairness, Kindness, and Financial Literacy in Love