7 Critical Steps to Take BEFORE Asking for a Divorce (Protect Yourself First)

If you’re quietly considering divorce—or trying to understand what’s next—this video walks you through the 7 critical steps to take before you ask for a divorce.

These steps help protect your emotional safety, financial stability, children’s wellbeing, and your future.
There’s no rush. It’s common (and wise) to take time.

In this video, we cover emotional readiness, financial preparation, how to safely plan the divorce conversation, and what to do if you’re concerned about keeping the marital home or qualifying for a mortgage after divorce.

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✨ If You Are in an Unsafe or Abusive Situation

Your safety matters most. If you feel unsafe, controlled, threatened, or you’re unsure how your spouse might react — there is help:

National Domestic Violence Hotline
📞 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
💬 Text “START” to 88788
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You are not alone. Support is available 24/7.

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