Why Calm Feels Wrong When You’re Used to Intensity

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In this special livestream, The Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith explain why calm moments feel dangerous to those with attachment issues. Adam explains how attachment conditioning in childhood creates a fear of calm and peace as it links calm and peace to potential dangers. Then Adam demonstrates how adult nervous systems respond to this attachment conditioning by becoming agitated and fearful when confronted with peaceful calm moments in relationships. Finally, Adam explains a simple roadmap to overcoming this conditioned fear of calm and peace to create more moments of perceived safety in relationships.

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