Stop Looking for Love—Do This Instead

Are you tired of chasing love and validation outside of yourself—through relationships, family, or constant achievements—only to end up feeling empty or disappointed? You’re not alone. For years, I repeated that same painful cycle until I finally realized the shift I needed was within me.

In this video, I’m sharing 3 powerful signs that you may be searching for love in all the wrong places—and how learning to truly love yourself can transform your life. From breaking the cycle of unhealthy relationships, to letting go of unmet family expectations, to releasing the pressure of constant achievement, I’ll walk you through how I began healing and creating a life more aligned with my values.

This is part of my Soulful Shift series—real conversations about self-love, healing, and reinventing yourself after 50 (or anytime life calls for a fresh start).

✨ If you’ve ever felt lonely, unworthy, or stuck in cycles that don’t serve you—this video is for you.

👉 Watch until the end, and let me know in the comments which of these signs resonated with you the most.

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