Empowered Bottoms: The Antithesis of Bottom Shaming

Bottoming is so much more than just a position. It’s time to flip the script on the old, tired narrative that bottoms are the passive or submissive partners.

In this episode we’re celebrating all things bottom and introducing the concept of the Empowered Bottom—someone who owns their pleasure, sets boundaries, and takes charge of the experience, whether they’re submissive, bossy, or anywhere in between.

We’ll be talking about:

✅ The difference between power bottoms and empowered bottoms (and other types of bottoms)
✅ Power, control, and who’s really in charge in bed
✅ Owning your pleasure without apology
✅ Bottom shaming
✅ Advocating for yourself
✅ Sexual health and feeling confident in your body

Join us for an episode that challenges sexual norms and subverts stereotypes within gay culture.

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00:00 Introduction
02:09 What is Empowered Bottom in Your Own Words?
07:45 Stereotypes, Myths, and Misconceptions About Bottoms
20:57 What Exactly Do Empowered Bottoms Do?
27:37 Tips for Advocating Yourself
32:01 What is Your Stance on Being an Empowered Bottom and Sexual Health?
46:15 What Do You Find Your Primary Motivations are?
48:01 What Specific Things/Steps that Empowered Bottoms Do?
51:56 Outro