Why You Might Feel Invisible to Women (And What to Do About It)

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I’m diving deep into something many men over 40 quietly struggle with, what I call The Invisible Man Effect. You’ve worked hard, you’re a good guy, and yet… when it comes to dating, it can feel like women just don’t see you. In this video, I break down why that happens, including outdated dating habits, unprocessed emotional baggage, and subtle mindset traps that push connection away. But more importantly, I share what you can do to shift it. You'll learn how to build authentic presence, deepen your confidence, and create the kind of energy that naturally draws women in. If you're ready to stop feeling overlooked and start showing up as the magnetic, grounded man you actually are, this episode is for you.

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01:05 - The Invisible Man Effect
01:42 - Client Story: Mark's Dating Struggles
03:21 - Unprocessed Emotional Baggage
06:36 - Low Status Behavior in Dating
10:15 - Becoming the Chooser, Not the Chaser
12:48 - Building a Fulfilling Life
14:42 - The Importance of Polarity and Spark
17:04 - The Three C's for Dating Success

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