The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need, With Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury

If you’re swiping endlessly on dating apps, dreading awkward first dates, or wondering how to make a new relationship actually last, this episode is for you. Logan Ury is a behavioral expert, bestselling author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science. We dive deep into why so many people get stuck in unfulfilling dating cycles, how to break free from toxic patterns, and the biggest mistakes Millennials and Gen Z are making when it comes to relationships. Logan shares why online dating feels so exhausting (and what to do about it), tips to meet people IRL, and her surprising take on “the spark” and why it might be sabotaging your love life. This conversation is packed with science-backed advice that will completely shift the way you think about relationships—and might just change your dating life forever.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Podcast Introduction
00:29 – Episode Introduction
02:00 – Logan’s Background and Experience
03:18 – Why Are People Struggling So Much to Find Their Person?
04:39 – 3 Dating Personalities
10:40 – The Biggest Mistakes Gen Z and Millennials Make In Relationships
12:56 – How to Deal With Rejection
14:39 – How Dating Is Different Today
17:22 – Tips For Online Dating (And Avoiding Dating App Burnout)
23:51 – Take Responsibility For Your Dating Life
26:08 – Can You Change Your “Type?”
28:35 – How to Be More Successful On The Apps
31:56 – How to Meet People IRL
36:23 – Have More Successful First Dates
39:12 – Josie’s Dating Advice
42:18 – What It Actually Takes for a Relationship To Last
45:40 – Rapid Fire Questions & Final Thoughts