Why the Universe Forces Change When You Don’t Choose Yourself

In this video, I share a personal story about what happens when we don’t set boundaries — and how the Universe eventually steps in to redirect us.

I talk about being breadcrumbed, ghosted, and staying in spaces where I wasn’t truly cherished. When I finally chose myself, installed clear boundaries, and released environments and relationships that weren’t supportive of my growth, everything began to shift.

What came next were more aligned people, healthier dynamics, and nurturing environments — reminders that our time, energy, and presence are deeply valuable in such a busy world.

I also pull tarot cards and explore The Tower as a form of divine redirection — not punishment, but protection. When we don’t choose ourselves proactively, the Universe sometimes makes the choice for us. Towers arrive to clear what cannot come with us, making space for what can.

From there, I talk about the Six of Cups — the softer energy that follows once boundaries are honored: meaningful connections, emotional safety, and a return to joy.

If you’re navigating change, endings, or feeling called to choose yourself more fully, this message is for you.

✨ Timeless message — if you found this when you did, trust that it’s intentional.

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