Drama-Dumping" The #1 Thing Not to Do WHEN MEETING SOMEONE NEW

You meet someone new and you're thrilled to have a new friend. You go on a first date after the Hijackal, and you're delighted and scared. Do this one thing... and guarantee things won't go well! You really need to think about this or it will happen by default. Don't let that happen, Be prepared right now.

Whether you're looking for a new friend or a potential new relationship, you don't want to be trauma dumping. When you let your whole story fly, someone else is likely to get crushed by it.

Out of the gate, with someone new, it's smart to establish a relationship dynamic based on balance, mutual sharing, and emotional maturity. Oversharing personal traumas can burden the budding relationship and skew its potential for growth.

Whether you're single, dating, or looking to improve your emotional connections, this episode of #saveyoursanitypodcast share strategies and practices you need, to proceed with care and confidence.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
New Relationships and Emotional Baggage
Understanding Drama Dumping and Trauma Dumping
Emotional Health and Relationship Dynamics
Building Emotional Maturity
Dating After a Toxic Relationship

00:00 Avoid drama dumping to foster healthy relationships.
04:53 Seek validation but test the waters cautiously.
09:41 Don't share everything on the first date.
13:16 Wait one year after leaving a hijackal.
15:10 Listening to shame, Hijackals thrive on pressure.
20:04 New Relationships: share light stories, not emotional baggage.
23:59 Prioritize self-care, values, and relationships.
26:12 Safe, anonymous conversations can be emotionally beneficial.

* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.

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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.

No worries about where in the world you live. I work through private, secure video conferencing. So, we can certainly work together to figure a few things out.

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