Do Rom-Coms Lie About Love? Top Relationship Experts Break It Down

What do movies get wrong about love, and what does the science actually say?

In this Passion Struck episode, John R. Miles interviews renowned psychologists Dr. Eli Finkel and Dr. Paul Eastwick, who expose the myths we’ve inherited from Hollywood and break down what research tells us about attraction, compatibility, and the keys to lasting love.

How is movie love different from real love?

Topics Covered:
-Destiny vs. growth beliefs in relationships
-Why our “ideal partner” isn’t who we end up loving
-The science of attraction, commitment, and longevity
-Why movies may be sabotaging your love life

Time stamps
0:00 Introduction to the show and guests 'Eli Finkel & Paul Eastwick'
2:15 Background and Concept of Love Factually
6:11 Myths and Misconceptions in Romantic Relationships
10:36 Rating System and Analysis of "The Notebook"
17:10 Partner Preferences and the Baking Metaphor
26:57 Groundhog Day and Relationship Growth
31:19 Jerry Maguire and the Concept of Completion
34:02 Say Anything and Breakup Dynamics
38: 31 Lightning Round and Final Thoughts

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This clip discusses how couples build their own unique "microculture" by developing patterns and routines. It highlights how moving past initial attraction involves co-creation and *shared growth**, showcasing **relationships* in a new light. Movies often depict these tiny worlds that couples create over time, showcasing the nuances of *attachment styles**. It's all about **healing* and *growth* together.