PEACEFUL LOVE Your Brain on Love Is Brain on Cocaine: Why Chemistry Lies to You about Compatibility

That "spark" you're chasing? It's literally a cocaine-level chemical high in your brain. And it's leading you to the wrong people.
Rutgers and Stanford neuroscience research reveals:
✅ Why instant chemistry often predicts relationship failure
✅ How your brain mistakes anxiety for attraction
✅ The difference between dopamine addiction and real love
✅ Why "boring" partners might be your healthiest choice
✅ How to retrain attraction from trauma to compatibility
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - The Lightning Bolt Lie
1:30 - Your Brain on Love = Your Brain on Drugs
5:30 - What Actually Predicts Relationship Success
9:00 - Real Stories: Sarah's Chemistry Trap
12:00 - How to Choose Compatibility Over Chemistry
14:30 - Taking the Next Step
The most successful relationships have chemistry AND compatibility - but they start with compatibility and let chemistry grow naturally, not the reverse.
RESEARCH CITED:

Rutgers: Dr. Helen Fisher's neurochemistry studies
Stanford: 20-year relationship outcome tracking
Harvard: Anxiety misattribution research
Yale: Growing into love vs falling in love
Gottman Institute: What predicts divorce with 94% accuracy

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