How to Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Guy Fast!

🚨 5 Questions to Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Man 🚨
If you want to avoid wasted time, heartbreak, and endless excuses, you NEED to gauge his emotional availability early on.
A man’s emotional availability will dictate if he’s going to:
❌ Waste your time
❌ Play games
❌ Pull away when things get serious
✅ Commit
✅ Be consistent
✅ Communicate effectively
That’s why you should save this and come back to it when necessary! These aren’t first-date interrogation questions—you want to figure them out naturally over 2-3 dates.
👇 Here’s what to ask and why: 👇
💡 1. What Did You Learn from Your Last Relationship? 💡
This question is a goldmine of information. 🚀
✔️ Does he reflect on his past mistakes?
✔️ Does he take accountability, or does he blame his ex for everything?
✔️ Has he grown and learned what he wants in a future relationship?
A man who has no self-reflection after a breakup is a man who will repeat the same patterns. 🚩
🔮 2. Where Do You See Yourself in the Next 1-2 Years? 🔮
Forget the 5-year plan nonsense—that’s too far out to matter. What’s he doing right now that aligns with his goals?
✔️ If he doesn’t mention wanting a committed relationship, he’s not looking for one.
✔️ If his goals are all about himself and have no room for a partner, he’s not ready.
✔️ If he’s still "figuring things out," he’s definitely not looking to settle down.
⏳ 3. When Was Your Last Relationship? ⏳
I’ve coached women for 10 years, and the top 3 signs that a man WILL NOT commit are:
❌ Newly single (less than a year)
❌ Was cheated on in his last relationship (still emotionally wounded)
❌ NEVER had a serious relationship (zero relationship skills)
If he’s fresh out of a breakup, proceed with caution. If he’s never had a serious relationship by his 30s, why would he start now? 🤷‍♀️
⚠️ 4. What Are You Looking For? ⚠️
This should be asked before meeting him! 🚀
Frame it in a way that makes it clear you’re looking for something serious. If he gives vague answers like:
🧐 “I’m just seeing where things go.”
🧐 “I like to keep things natural.”
🧐 “I’m not into labels.”
RUN. 🏃‍♀️ He’s telling you he’s not serious.
💬 5. How Do You Handle Conflict in a Relationship? 💬
This determines the longevity of your relationship. 💯
✔️ Does he face conflict head-on or run when things get tough?
✔️ Does he communicate openly or give you the silent treatment?
✔️ Does he work with you to solve issues or make you feel like the problem?
A man who avoids conflict will never be able to build a lasting relationship.
📢 Final Thoughts:
Emotionally unavailable men aren’t always bad guys—but they ARE bad choices for women who want something real. Pay attention to these answers, and don’t ignore the signs.
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