Erin Cain on Personal Resilience and the Power of Horses to Heal

Erin Cain didn’t grow up around horses but eventually was exposed to them and the remarkable abilities they have to facilitate healing for a wide range of individuals.  A series of life events caused her to move from her native northeast to the Colorado Rockies and today, she’s the co-founder, owner, and operator of Grace Reins Equine Therapy (https://gracereins.org/) . In this episode she describes the personal hardships she’s overcome and the work she now does rescuing and “gentling” wild mustangs, then working with these animals to provide therapy to the diverse group of individuals who come to Grace Reins for healing. 

Chapters: 

00:00 Erins’s East Coast Roots 
Host Bill Burke introduces Erin Cain, founder of Grace Reins, a therapeutic horse organization. Erin shares her early life growing up on Long Island in a blue-collar family, far from horses, and how she eventually moved to California. 

03:12 Discovering Equine Therapy 
Erin recounts her first exposure to equine therapy in Connecticut at High Hopes, a major program.  

07:22 Grace Reins: Founding & Mission 
Erin discusses her journey from volunteering at High Hopes to getting certified in therapeutic horsemanship. She details her move to Colorado in 2013 and the eventual establishment of Grace Reins, emphasizing the inspiration she drew from Special Olympics events. 

11:12 Rescuing Wild Mustangs 
Erin introduces her partner Joe and explains how their shared passion for wild mustangs led to their collaboration. She highlights Grace Reins’ unique approach of rescuing and gentling wild mustangs, integrating them into their therapy programs. 

15:04 The Art of Gentling Wild Horses 
Erin explains the process of gentling wild mustangs, referencing Monty Roberts’ methods of compassionate training. She illustrates how this process teaches respect and patience, which are crucial lessons also applicable to human interaction. 

19:05 Mustangs and Human Healing 
Erin explores the profound connection between rescued mustangs and clients, especially veterans, who find a mirror in these traumatized yet resilient animals. This shared experience of overcoming adversity fosters hope and a sense of worth for both the horses and the individuals. 

22:08 Therapy with Veterans & Children 
Erin details the therapeutic process at Grace Reins, focusing on groundwork, grooming, and non-verbal communication to help clients, including female wounded warriors and children, downregulate and connect with horses. She describes how the horses’ slower heartbeats and meditative presence aid in relaxation and emotional regulation. 

27:13 Nature’s Impact: Beyond the Screen 
Erin discusses the benefits of children spending time outdoors with horses, moving away from screens and engaging their senses. She highlights how this environment helps children develop emotional regulation and a sense of calm, echoing the concept of nature deficit disorder. 

31:05 Personal Resilience & Drive 
Erin shares a deeply personal story about the loss of her brother, a New York City firefighter, on 9/11, and how this tragedy fuels her dedication to helping others. She connects her experiences with her father’s firefighting career and her brother’s memory to her empathetic approach in therapeutic work, especially with veterans. 

38:01 Finding Equine Therapy Near You 
Erin discusses the widespread availability of equine therapy and directs listeners to PATH, the Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship, for finding local programs. She also offers to personally assist those seeking therapeutic horsemanship options, emphasizing the global reach of this impactful work.