Ask your wife this! Trust me.. you will thank me!

In this video, I’m sharing a personal story about something that took me almost 30 years to realize: when it comes to communicating with my partner, sometimes I need to stop trying to fix everything and just listen. This insight hit home after I came across a study that showed how, even as infants, boys and girls react differently to challenges—hinting at how we're hardwired from a young age.

I’ll explain how this little experiment helped me see why my well-meaning solutions often missed the mark. Now, I ask my partner one simple question: “Do you want me to help solve this, or do you just want me to listen?”

That shift has made a world of difference. If you’ve ever struggled with miscommunication in your own relationships, this might help you, too.

Timestamps / Chapters:

00:00 Solving Problems vs. Listening
00:17 The Study That Changed Everything
00:27 Infant Study: Boys vs. Girls
01:25 Communication Patterns in Adults
02:09 Personal Experiences and Misfires
02:57 The Game-Changing Question
03:17 Key Takeaways for Better Communication
04:22 Conclusion

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