John Kehoe. Choosing The Right Goal For You

How do we know that the goals that we have chosen for ourselves are appropriate and what we should be working on? https://bit.ly/LearnMoreMindPower4Free

All of us are different, we are all unique, and every single one of us has a destiny. Every one of us has a purpose and meaning to our life.

The first thing you want to look at are the societal memes. What are our cultural memes that tell us what a successful life is? What are they? Is it that you make a lot of money, that you're rich, that you're famous, that you're good looking, that you're young?

These are all the things which I call the "cultural memes." So what will happen is these memes will pull you towards them because it's what you see on your your Internet feed, it's what you see on TV, it's what you see in magazines, it's what people are talking about.

So you have to distinguish, is this my calling as well? And there may be some that are your calling, there's nothing wrong with being financially independent and having a successful life. All these are very good things, but beyond that, what is calling you, what do you want your life to be? And the only way that you can approach that is by asking yourself what would I love to do? What do I really feel that I'm good at?

The universe wants you to be successful. Success is ingrained in every single cell in our body. It is wired into our consciousness. And because we're wired for success, each one of us is seeded with different talents and different desires.

If the universe wants you to be successful then obviously it's going to imprint something that you would love to do, because why would it give you something that you don't enjoy? Why would it give you something that is difficult? It wants you to be successful and in order for you to be successful, it has to encourage you. And the way it does that is you have something that you love to do.

So what I suggest to my students is to re-evaluate the goals that you have at different times of your life. Obviously, goals that you have at 20 are no longer appropriate at 40 and the goals at 40 are no longer appropriate at 60. But that's the easy part. Sometimes the goals that you've established last month are no longer appropriate because something new has happened to you. You've had a new insight or you've had a deeper understanding or a new opportunity has revealed itself to you.

The way that you approach it in your life is, firstly to understand you're never going to get it 100% right. And that's OK because when we trust ourselves, even when we go off on the wrong path you recognize it and say to yourself this doesn't feel right."

You're connected to your subconscious mind. One of your beliefs that you can imprint into your subconscious is that I always make the right decisions. And so what this will do is when you don't make a right decision, you will feel it very quickly. You'll feel it within a week or two and say, “No, this isn't quite right.”

Rather than being disappointed that you made the wrong decision, you must think of it is like sailing, you have to set your sails according to where the wind is coming from and you need to tack back and forth to get to your destination. It's never a straight line. And that's exactly how it is in life. Destiny is never a straight line, it meanders, it goes in different directions.

Sometimes you make mistakes and wrong decisions, and that's OK. There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it's the way life unfolds. So always you come back to does this feel right to me? Am I achieving the different objectives in this particular goal that I have chosen for myself? And as I achieve them, how do I feel? Do I feel great? Do I feel I'm on the right track? Or do I feel, yes I achieved it, but it still doesn't feel right.

Always trust what feels right, because how you make decisions in your life is with your logic and with your feelings. The logic is in the conscious mind and your feelings are in your subconscious. So when the logic mind and your feelings and intuition tell you the same thing, then you know, absolutely you're on the right track. But when the logic says one thing and your feeling and intuition says something else, in my experience, I always go with my feelings and intuition. Because for me, almost always, it is the more accurate one. So have fun in your life. Be successful in your life.

Make decisions that feel right, and when they no longer feel right, drop them and move on to something else.

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