Why Wrong Identity Attracts Wrong Relationships - Pastor Anwinli Ojeikere

In this deep and deliverance-filled message, Pastor Anwili Ojieikere teaches on Identity Before Covenant and reveals why many believers enter wrong relationships, toxic marriages, and painful emotional cycles due to a damaged self-image.

She exposes the danger of living on flattery, pity, and emotional neediness, explaining that when a person does not know who they are in Christ, they become an option instead of a priority, a convenience instead of a covenant partner.

This sermon brings healing to:

Victims of rejection

Those wounded by parents, past relationships, and abusive words

Singles battling low self-worth

Believers stuck in identity confusion

People settling for “almost” instead of God’s best

Using the words of Jesus, “Who do men say that I am?”, this teaching shows that revelation of identity comes before recognition, and recognition comes before covenant. Without clear identity, people confuse lust for love, convenience for commitment, and pity for purpose.

Pastor Anwili also reveals how:

Wrong labels from parents and partners shape destiny wrongly

Emotional wounds create spiritual blindness

Identity crisis leads to forced relationships and wrong marriages

True self-worth is rooted in Christ, not compliments, body image, or attention

Knowing who you are positions you to attract who God has prepared for you

This message will restore broken self-image, heal emotional trauma, and realign you with God’s original design for your life, love, and future.

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