Best Practices For Caregiving: Top 4 Mistakes To Avoid With A Parent With Dementia

Here are 4 things not to do if your parent or spouse has dementia, along with brief explanations:

1. Don’t Argue or Try to Correct Them

Why: Dementia affects memory, reasoning, and perception. Arguing can cause frustration and escalate tension.

What to Do Instead: Redirect the conversation gently or validate their feelings without focusing on factual accuracy.

2. Don’t Overwhelm Them with Choices

Why: Too many options can be confusing and stressful for someone with dementia.

What to Do Instead: Offer simple, clear choices, such as “Would you like coffee or tea?” rather than “What would you like to drink?”

3. Don’t Assume They’re Doing It on Purpose

Why: Dementia-related behaviors, such as repeating questions or forgetting names, are symptoms of their condition—not deliberate actions.

What to Do Instead: Respond with patience and empathy. Adjust your expectations to their abilities.

4. Don’t Ignore Safety Concerns

Why: Dementia can impair judgment, making everyday activities like cooking or driving dangerous.

What to Do Instead: Assess their environment for risks, such as removing tripping hazards or monitoring medication use. Take proactive steps to ensure their safety.

By focusing on understanding and compassion, you can create a supportive environment that helps your loved one live with greater comfort and dignity.

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