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James May has always been the most private of the three Top Gear legends, preferring a quiet, reserved lifestyle over the chaos of the spotlight. While Jeremy Clarkson is out stirring up controversy and Richard Hammond is recovering from another crash, May is happily living life on his own terms.

For over two decades, James has been in a relationship with Sarah Frater, a respected dance critic and writer. The couple has been together since 2000, and while they’ve never married, their relationship has stood the test of time—no scandals, no drama, just two people who enjoy each other’s company.

May and Frater live a comfortable, low-key life in London, sharing a love for art, literature, and thoughtful conversation rather than chasing the glitz and glamour of celebrity status. Unlike many TV personalities, James avoids social media and keeps his personal life out of the headlines, which has only added to his air of mystery.

At 61 years old, James is enjoying life at a slower pace, balancing his passion for cars with a more relaxed approach to work and personal projects. While he’s still heavily involved in TV, writing, and business ventures, he’s also focused on enjoying the finer things in life, from good food and fine spirits to spending time tinkering with his beloved cars.