What Avoidants Really Mean By "LET'S BE FRIENDS" | Megan Weks

In this powerful video, we dissect the painful and confusing moment an avoidant ex offers you "friendship" after a breakup. This offer is rarely what it seems. I'm Megan Weks, and I'm breaking down the hidden intentions behind this proposal so you can protect your heart and your healing.

We'll expose the 4 hidden reasons avoidants push for friendship:
1️⃣ To keep you as a backup option while they explore others.
2️⃣ To manage their guilt over how they treated you.
3️⃣ To maintain access to your emotional support without accountability.
4️⃣ To monitor and control your moving-on process.

Understanding this is not about blame; it's about clarity. This knowledge is your power to make a decision that truly serves YOUR healing, not their hidden agenda.

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⏱️ Timestamps
0:00 - The Confusing "Friendship" Offer
1:45 - The Painful Contradiction
3:30 - The 4 Hidden Intentions Revealed
5:10 - 1. Maintaining Access Without Accountability
8:05 - The Asymmetry of the "Friendship"
11:20 - 2. Keeping You as a Backup Option
15:50 - The Backup Strategy Patterns
19:00 - 3. Managing Their Guilt
22:15 - The Emotional Labor You're Really Doing
24:40 - 4. Surveillance & Controlling Your Moving On
27:10 - Your Power to Choose Your Healing


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The content in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views expressed are my personal opinions based on my expertise and research. Always seek the advice of a qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health or medical condition.