Stop Saying “I’m Just a Mom” with Izabella Boyd

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with 100xLife coach and stay at home strategist, Izabella Boyd, and goes right after a quiet lie in the church: that staying home is “less than” and that motherhood is a holding pattern until your “real calling” shows up.

Izabella shares how 15 years of homeschooling a son with learning challenges became her training ground for leadership, not her sideline. She walks through how the Master’s Program, TMPx, and the 100xLife challenge helped her see that discipling her family at the table is not a consolation prize, it is kingdom work. Then she tells the truth about resentment, hidden idolatry in marriage, and how the Words of Jesus on “deny yourself” exposed her coping habits with food, shopping, and fantasy expectations of her husband.

If you are a stay at home mom who secretly thinks you are “just” anything, or a husband who has quietly treated your wife’s role as small, this episode will confront you. It will push you to find your value in Jesus instead of in your kids, your career, or your spouse, and to treat the home as a serious field for the Great Commission.

You will hear:
Why “I am just a stay at home mom” is an agreement with a lie, not humility
How 15 years of homeschooling became Izabella’s boot camp for her future coaching business
The difference between “my kids are my purpose” and “my kids are my training ground”
How undervaluing your own role quickly turns into quietly undermining your husband
The painful moment Izabella realized she was using Bible verses against her spouse
What the 100xLife word “Deny Yourself” exposed in her: resentment, overeating, shopping, and a flesh led life
Why coaching is often the missing piece for Christian women who feel stuck between home and marketplace
How Izabella is building “Your Calling Awaits” to help stay at home women step into the Great Commission, not just survive the empty nest

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where have I agreed with the lie that my role is small, and where am I expecting my spouse to give me what only You can give.

Journal Prompt
If you are a stay at home woman:
Write out the sentence, “I am just a…” then finish it honestly.
Now cross it out and rewrite it with Jesus. Describe your home as a training ground for the calling He is shaping in you, including one specific way you will treat today as kingdom work.

If you are a husband:
Write down three costly, concrete ways your wife carries your family. Then ask Jesus how He wants you to honor and support that calling this week.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement
🌐 Explore Izabella’s coaching for stay at home women → https://yourcallingawaits.com

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Chapters
00:00 Why January 2 matters for your influence
02:00 Izabella’s story and 15 years of homeschooling
07:00 “Stay at home,” “marketplace,” or both
10:30 “Just a mom” and the quiet devaluing of home
19:30 How “Deny Yourself” exposed hidden idols
31:00 Your Calling Awaits and the Great Commission from home
36:00 Why serious Jesus followers need coaches, not just sermons
40:00 Final encouragement for couples, coaches, and stay at home women ready to move