5 Obvious Signs an Avoidant Is Keeping Multiple Partners on Rotation | Megan Weks

Are you stuck in a confusing cycle of intense connection followed by sudden, unexplained distance? This video decodes the hidden "rotation" strategy that some avoidant partners use to maintain emotional safety and control. Learn the 5 specific behavioral signs that go beyond simple attachment styles and reveal whether you're being strategically managed as part of a lineup. If you've ever felt like you're competing with ghosts, ex-partners, or his mysterious "busyness," this is the clarity you've been searching for. Understand the pattern to reclaim your power and decide what you truly deserve.

Timestamps:

00:00 - 02:15 🎬 Intro: The Avoidant "Edgerunner" & The Rotation Strategy

02:16 - 09:30 🔄 Sign 1: The Predictable Cycle - Hot & Cold Availability

09:31 - 15:45 📵 Sign 2: The Guarded Phone - Digital Privacy or Active Concealment?

15:46 - 20:10 🌐 Sign 3: Social Media Invisibility - The "Single" Public Persona

20:11 - 24:00 👥 Sign 4: Suspiciously Close Exes - The Permanent Backup Plan

24:01 - 27:50 ⏳ Sign 5: Artificial Scarcity - Manufactured "Busyness"

27:51 - 28:44 💡 Outro: Recognizing the Pattern & Your Path Forward


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This content is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The concepts discussed, including attachment styles and behavioral patterns, are based on relational psychology frameworks. Always seek the advice of your qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a relationship or a mental health condition. The strategies and interpretations shared are perspectives for consideration, not absolute diagnoses of any individual.