The Human Development & Attachment Wizard, Lessons from 80,000 Client Hours | Duey Freeman

After 74 years on Earth, 50 years as a therapist, and accumulating over 80,000 client hours, our guest, Duey Freeman, has a lot to say. In a world where we aren't taught how to be in a relationship or navigate life’s challenges, the wisdom Duey shares with us is absolutely essential.

As Duey explains, almost everyone today has accumulated some sort of attachment wounding and stunted development, but so few are aware of it. Our attachment style and its quality set the standard for the kinds of relationships we can expect to have and how we will show up in them. Needless to say, understanding our attachment issues is essential for all humans, and if you think you're different, you're probably wrong. :)

Expect to learn:
What attachment is
How to create intimacy with others
How and why most people never fully grow up
How human development is stunted
Why so many people struggle with shame
The key to dissolving shame
How humans lost our instincts
Why we are scared of being scared

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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
3:13 Duey’s Origin Story
10:30 Duey’s Big Realization on Attachment
13:08 Grieving the Loss of a Parent
17:14 Duey’s Definition of Attachment
19:08 I-Thou-We Relationship
21:45 Original Attachment
27:20 Normalizing Attachment Issues
32:40 What it Means to Make Contact with Another
37:47 The Different Stages of Human Development
42:20 We Go Back to Earlier Stages of Development During Tough Times
48:15 Dissolving Shame
52:40 The Importance of “I Love you, and…”
58:48 Where did Humans Lose Touch with Our Instincts?
1:05:18 The Big Break in Humans
1:11:28 “We Are Scared of Being Scared”.

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Duey is a sought-after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional worldwide.
He has taught worldwide and developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory taught to thousands of university students.
He has nearly 80,000 direct client hours and co-founded the Gestalt Equine Institute and the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies.

Connect with Duey
https://www.dueyfreeman.org/

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