HOLY HOLY Overwhelm!! Positive Motherhood?

My Kids Are Driving Me NUTS Toddler Tantrums!! + Positive Motherhood Mindset
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Woof, we were sick the past two weeks and it was INTENSE. Seth was amaaaaazing and when mom's go down the ship really does get rocked. When I was barely turning the corner (and could physically get out of bed) my kids still did NOT and they NEEEEDED me to hold them, snuggle them and they were superrrrrr fussy and having a lot of toddler tantrums It was all around a mess and I was MAXED out and overstimulated.

But we carried on, and I share 9 things that helped me keep a positive motherhood mindset of this chaos. Some of the are basic AF but sometimes we just need those BASIC reminders. Other ones I've learned from books I've read about parenting.

The three I'd recommend when you kids start talking are:
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1. Hunt Gather Parent: https://rstyle.me/+DjmcGM2w1OzolQdDl5...
(Start reading when they're about 1, helps to learn how to coexist with kids instead of feeling like you need to entertain them alll. the. time.)
2. How to talk so LITTLE kids listen:https://rstyle.me/+O5bWg8RbQwnh40rn7L...
(Start reading when they're talking, this one gives you strategies to work WITH your kids instead of against them when they're having toddler tantrums)
3. Good Inside: https://rstyle.me/+IXQ_QonLTcDp6TIroi...
(Also start around 1.5 - 2yo it reminds you that they really are good, and if they're giving you a hard time it's because they're having a hard time.)

I hope this helped! Please comment below with your tips!!

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00:00 Hey Shayla Introduction Positive Motherhood Mindset
00:35 My Kids are driving me Crazy with toddler tantrums
01:08 Motherhood right now is wild
01:32 Hard Doesn't Mean Bad with little kids
01:53 1. Fresh air + Water
02:35 2. RESET
03:04 Hydration
04:03 We all lose it sometimes
04:59 3. Figure out how to not burn out and keep a positive mindset
05:29 What I LIKE doing with my "me time"
07:00 4. REPAIR with your kids
07:42 5. Stop, Drop & Connect (and get curious) with toddler tantrums
08:38 6, One thing a a time!
09:32 7. A plan for tv free time
10:48 8. Music is a NO now, overstimulation
11:12 9. THREE book recommendations (Hunt gather parent, how to talk so little kids listen, good inside)
12:37 We've been IN IT the last 2 weeks