Be Honest God, Yourself and Others!

Often we can feel stuck because we are misaligned. And misalignment is a by-product of Self-Deception. Learning to be honest in these three areas can help you get free and start moving ahead.

Here is an Outline you can use to apply this teaching:
1. Be Honest with God
Core idea: God transforms what we’re willing to be truthful about.
• Bring your real self to Him, not the polished version you wish existed.
• Let Him speak into your vocation and family before you jump into strategy.
• Ask Him to expose the places you’re drifting, striving, or hiding.
• Pray for clarity over comfort — clarity always leads to movement.

Questions to reflect on:
• Where do you feel unsettled in your calling or family roles?
• What have you avoided saying to God because it feels messy?

2. Be Honest with Yourself
Core idea: Self-deception prevents discernment.
• Name the gap between who you are and who you’ve been acting like.
• Admit where you’re over-functioning or under-functioning.
• Own the limits you’ve been ignoring — emotional, physical, relational.
• Acknowledge the season you’re actually in… and what it’s asking of you.
Questions:
• What role no longer fits your current season?
• Where have you pretended to have more capacity than you do?

3. Be Honest with Others
Core idea: Alignment grows when truth is communicated early.
• Say clearly what you’re called to — and what you’re not called to.
• Let your family know your real capacity instead of being stuck in a family role.
• Invite trusted voices to reflect what they see in you.
• Communicate needs early; don’t wait for frustration or resentment.
Questions:
• Who needs to hear the truth about your capacity or calling right now?
• Where do you need to ask for support instead of pushing through alone?

4. Activation
• What is God highlighting for you right now? (1–2 things)
• Are you ready to address it? What’s your plan?
• Anything you want to share, declare, or receive prayer for?

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