Why Some People Only Love You When You’re Useful to Them – Alan Watts

Do you ever feel as if people only notice you when they need something from you, as though your worth appears only in moments of usefulness? This reflection explores the quiet fatigue of over-giving and the tender awakening that follows when you finally recognize the cost of carrying too much.

This talk reveals how kindness without boundaries slowly becomes self-erasure, and how the simple act of stepping back can restore the dignity and peace you’ve long set aside. Through calm storytelling and gentle insight, it uncovers the invisible contracts behind your generosity and shows why silence and distance can become profound acts of love.

Listen and discover how clarity emerges when you stop explaining, how inner calm returns when you let others hold their own weight, and how a quieter, more honest life begins the moment you release what was never yours to carry.

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