Masculinity: Healthy vs Unhealthy vs Abusive Characteristics

In this powerful and timely episode, Dr. Sandi sits down with Officer Christopher M. Aboy to explore the complex realities of masculinity—from toxic and unhealthy expressions to healthy, accountable manhood.

They dive into:
🧠 The spectrum of male behavior and how aggression plays a role
💬 The difference between toxicity and abuse
👥 The “alpha male” and its ties to bullying and leadership
👨‍👧 Being a better father, family man, and role model
🛡️ How men can choose responsibility, reflection, and emotional accountability
⚠️ Why some behaviors seem toxic to some—but not to others
👣 Steps men can take to avoid abusive or discriminatory conduct

This episode is a must-watch for men, boys, single mothers, educators, campus leaders, DEI advocates, and anyone committed to shifting harmful narratives about masculinity.

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Chapters
00:00 Opening
00:35 Introduction
01:52 Masculinity Matters This Father's Day
04:01 Title IX Confusion
04:55 Toxic vs. Healthy Masculinity
06:11 Good Guy Alphas?
10:27 Accountability & Reflection
10:58 Can Toxic Masculinity Be Reformed?
13:07 When Masculinity Exploits
14:00 President Trump
14:55 Masculinity Check
14:09 Spectrum of Behavior
16:57 Alpha Leaders or Bullies?
18:28 Abusive vs. Unhealthy Masculinity
20:20 When Aggression Isn't Toxic
21:00 Healthy Masculinity
24:26 Healthy Relationships
26:31 Becoming Better Men
29:01 How do you describe your masculinity?
31:08 Closing

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