anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure

Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?
In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern.
If you’ve ever felt clingy, overthought a text for hours, or kept giving chances to someone who couldn’t meet you emotionally — you’re not alone.

🎧 Topics we touch on:
anxious vs avoidant attachment
dating while anxiously attached
our personal journey toward becoming secure

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