When the Fearful Avoidant Gets Older... THIS Happens

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Most people believe Fearful Avoidants mellow out with age — but the truth is far more complicated. As they get older, unresolved wounds don’t just disappear.

Instead, they can amplify, manifesting in relationships, health, and emotional well-being. In this video, Thais Gibson unpacks the surprising patterns that emerge as Fearful Avoidants age and what this means for healing.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why Fearful Avoidants carry more core wounds than any other style
✅ How avoiding relationships long-term doesn’t make the wounds go away
✅ The neuroscience behind how unresolved trauma intensifies with age
✅ The physical health consequences of chronic emotional stress
✅ Why deep reflection can trigger profound healing later in life
✅ A three-step exercise to start rewiring your subconscious patterns

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
00:30 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Have More Core Wounds
04:13 – 2. Staying Out of Relationships Gets Harder Over Time
04:45 – 3. Deep Reflection Can Open the Doorway to Profound Healing
06:02 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo
06:58 – The Neuroscience Behind Trauma
09:08 – Step 1: Look at the Different Things That Trigger You on a Daily Basis
10:36 – Step 2: Ask Yourself, “How Do I Tend to Behave When These Wounds Show Up?”
11:26 – Step 3: “What is One Thing I Can Do Differently Instead?
12:15 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Reflection and Transformation
13:42 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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