how to heal your hyper-independence & attract healthy love

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⭑ VIDEO SUMMARY ⭑

your hyper independence is just a fear of vulnerability in disguise.

don’t shoot the messenger, because i am you and you are me. i’ve been married for three years, and it’s taken me this long to realize that it’s OKAY to say i need my man. it’s OKAY to ask him to do things for me, even if i can do them myself. and (dare i say it), it’s OKAY to give him a little ego stroke here and there, because why not?

in this video, i’m going to talk you through the three lessons i wish i learned three years ago, when i was moving in with Ahmad and starting our marriage. i’m also going to break down why our hyper-independence is really only hurting us.

my love, this video is not in defense of men. i’m not thinking about them - i’m thinking about you. i want you to be in a relationship that makes you feel safe and sexy in your softness. can’t wait to hear what you think (even if this one pisses you off a little lol).

⭑ CHAPTERS ⭑

00:00: i'm a recovering independent woman
01:51: being hyper-independent while single (storytime)
03:36: RULE 1 | it's okay to say you need him
09:06: RULE 2 | just because you can, doesn't mean you should
16:34: RULE 3 | if you can't let your guard down, let him go
22:19: i want you to have a healthy love


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