He hurts you because he knows you’re too good for him….

Some men punish good women because they believe they’ll eventually be abandoned, so they strike first.
They mistreat you because they know you deserve better… and because they know they can’t give it.

His inconsistency, his hot and cold behavior, his emotional distance — that’s not a phase.
That’s his pattern.
And he’s not changing.

This video breaks down why he acts this way, why you keep internalizing his pain as your responsibility, and why walking away is the most self-loving thing you can do.

If you’ve been giving everything while getting nothing, this is for you.

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