Stop Setting Goals Until You Do THIS First | Pastor Mario Moxey

Goal setting might be destroying your life.

In this episode of Finding Harmony, we sit down with Pastor Mario Moxey to unpack why chasing "new year, new me" keeps us stuck — and what it actually takes to experience real transformation. He shares a raw COVID-era conversation with his daughters that changed how he approaches family, purpose, and ministry forever.

If you're tired of starting over every January, this episode will shift your perspective from doing to becoming.

🕐 CHAPTERS:
0:00 – Introduction
2:30 – Why "New Year, New Me" Doesn't Work
6:30 – The Difference Between Becoming and Doing
10:17 – Pastor Mario's Painful Conversation with His Kids
15:02 – Why Quality Time Is Actually About Quantity
18:43 – Why People Don't Change (Fear, Procrastination, Insecurity)
21:29 – The Danger of Goal Setting Without Values
27:00 – How Pastor Mario Told God He'd Never Be a Pastor
30:36 – How to Surrender Without Losing Control
38:27 – Why Christians Are Afraid to Say "I Think God Told Me"
46:12 – The Starbucks Moment: God's Grace in Unexpected Places
48:17 – Why We See God as a Taskmaster
52:10 – The CHOICES Framework for Better Decisions
55:00 – Systems Thinking: The Edward Deming Story
1:00:43 – One Thing for 2026: Alignment
1:06:15 – Closing

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Pastor Mario Moxey
Bahamas Faith Ministries

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