It's ok to miss what you had

You can miss the good moments.
The laughs, the inside jokes, the way it used to be.
It’s okay to remember the warmth without inviting back the fire that burned you.

Sometimes we get desensitized.
We learn to live in survival mode—
walking on eggshells, silencing our needs,
confusing chaos with passion
and emotional neglect with "normal."

But just because you had something
doesn’t mean it was the right thing.

You don’t have to settle for “familiar.”
You don’t have to go back just to feel something.

It’s okay to grieve the good.
But don’t forget—you deserve better.
Peace can feel boring when you’ve lived in emotional storms,
but peace is safe. Peace is healing. Peace is yours.

You don’t have to choose between what you had and what you need.
You can let go—and still want more. 💛

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