Why Women are Addicted to Toxic Men

What we experience in childhood often shows up later in our romantic relationships. In this episode of Diary of a CEO, Logan Ury explains attachment theory and why so many adults find themselves stuck repeating the same painful dating patterns.

Anxiously attached people fear abandonment and chase closeness. Avoidantly attached people fear being smothered and push intimacy away. When these two styles pair up, they create what is known as the anxious avoidant loop — a cycle where both partners feel misunderstood, hurt, and convinced that emotional chaos is “just what love feels like.”

Logan explains why securely attached people tend to form lasting relationships, why they leave the dating pool quickly, and how recognizing your attachment style can completely change how you approach love. She also shares a personal story that highlights how powerful self-awareness can be when choosing healthier partners.

This conversation is essential for anyone who feels stuck chasing unavailable partners or repeatedly feeling abandoned in relationships.

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Channel: Diary of a CEO ‪@TheDiaryOfACEO‬
Speaker: Logan Ury

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