Surplus Men Explained | Male Loneliness, Dating & Global Impact

What happens when a society has more men than women who want to partner with them?

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts ‪@yv_edit‬ and ‪@thesovereignwoman‬ unpack the concept of “surplus men” — those left out of relationships, social life, and purpose. They explore how this imbalance impacts dating, marriage, politics, and even global stability. From radicalization to authoritarianism, they reveal why surplus men pose one of the most overlooked social challenges of our time.
But first, in Tea Time, they cover Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes being banned from YouTube (again), a shocking mass catcalling event in Spain, Suffolk County’s “Top 10 Deadbeat Dads” list, and a listener comment on why women stay in relationships with men. Later, they break down a Reddit case study of a husband controlling his wife through finances.

💥 Main Discussion:
The ripple effects of surplus men, male loneliness, and why women’s independence is reshaping society.

☕ Tea Time Topics:
– Alex Jones & Nick Fuentes banned from YouTube again
– Mass catcalling event in Spain
– Suffolk County’s “Top 10 Deadbeat Dads” list
– Why women stay in relationships with men

🎙 Main Topics:
– The global rise of “surplus men” and why it matters
– Male loneliness, violence, and radicalization
– How skewed sex ratios shape politics and stability
– Why marriage has historically “pacified” men
– Financial control and power dynamics in modern marriages

✨ Links & Resources Mentioned:
Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes Taken Off YouTube Again
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/wo...
Spanish Students Stage Mass Catcalling Event
https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/3007091...
Top 10 Deadbeat Dads in Suffolk County
https://www.yahoo.com/news/10-worst-d...
A Surplus Of Men, A Deficit Of Peace
https://kar.kent.ac.uk/11430/1/surplu...
Women Continue To Outpace Men In College Enrollment and Graduation
https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelt...

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Everything Is Tuberculosis by John Green
https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Tub...
Lisa’s blog on Surplus Men:
  / reading-tea-blog-140381730  

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⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
04:05 Alex Jones & Nick Fuentes Banned From YouTube Again
07:40 Mass Catcalling Event in Spain
14:55 Top 10 Deadbeat Dads
18:35 Can You Decenter Men While In A Relationship?
28:15 Surplus Men: Understanding the Crisis
39:02 The Reality of Surplus Men
49:48 Political Implications of Surplus Males
58:10 Why Are There Surplus Men?
01:06:15 Evolution and Identity Crisis in Men
01:11:12 How To Not Be A Surplus Man
01:18:17 This You? Husband Withholds Finances
01:35:24 Poll Results: Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships

🎙 About The Audaci-Tea:
Unapologetically feminist. Unfiltered truths. Hosted by bold women, The Audaci-Tea Podcast explores patriarchy, power, and the politics of womanhood with wit, depth, and radical honesty. From dating culture to hot topics to feminist herstory, we’re spilling the tea that matters.

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Executive Producers: Lisa Carr & The Sovereign Woman
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