Why We Slack Off + 5 Keys to Unshakable Discipline

Most people think they lack discipline; that’s actually not the problem.

In this video, Polly Mertens breaks down why we slack off—and why it’s not a personal flaw, a motivation issue, or a willpower failure.

Discipline isn’t about trying harder. It’s about understanding how your brain actually works so you can set yourself up to win.

Drawing from decades of habit coaching, addiction recovery, athletic discipline, and real-life experimentation, Polly shares the 5 keys to unshakeable discipline—the kind that doesn’t rely on motivation and doesn’t collapse the moment life gets busy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why willpower is unreliable (and what to use instead)
• How your brain is designed to conserve energy, not chase growth or self-improvement
• Why decision fatigue quietly sabotages your consistency
• How to eliminate “should I or shouldn’t I?” once and for all
• The 5 keys that make discipline automatic instead of exhausting

The 5 Keys to Unshakeable Discipline:

1️⃣ Your brain conserves energy — work with it, not against it
2️⃣ Make habits easy, obvious, and visible
3️⃣ Focus on the daily action, not the distant goal
4️⃣ Habits stick when they’re rewarding
5️⃣ Small actions compound into identity change

You’ll also learn:
• Why most habits fail in the first few weeks (and how to avoid that)
• Why “always yes” rules beat daily decision-making
• How small actions become votes for who you’re becoming
• Why starting small isn’t weak — it’s strategic

This video is for you if:
✔ You start strong and then fall off
✔ You beat yourself up for “not being disciplined enough”
✔ You want habits that last without white-knuckling
✔ You’re ready to stop relying on motivation and start building systems

Slacking off isn’t a character flaw. It’s a systems problem—and systems can be redesigned.

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