I CUT OFF ALL MY HAIR!! | *HUSBAND'S REACTION*

Today, I'm taking you along for my major hair transformation! Not only am I cutting at least 13 inches off, but I am lifting out the black box color and going blonde! I always wanted to be the girl with long, black hair, but I started to realize...I've been that girl for 10 years. To put things into perspective, the last time I had my hair this short, I was in 4th grade. So, I convinced myself that one drastic haircut in my lifetime is probably acceptable lol.

Connor always used to tell me to never cut my long hair, because he loved it. But lately, he's been telling me he thinks I'd look really pretty if I cut it, too. So once he was excited about it, I made the appointment and told myself I couldn't back out!

As the appointment got closer, I have to admit, I almost backed out about a thousand times. I was so excited at first, but then I started to feel like I was going to be missing my identity. I've always been the girl with the long, dark hair, and now I wasn't going to have either of those things. That was truly my biggest reason for wanting to back out of it. What a silly reason, right?? I started to realize that if I was putting my identity solely in the length and color of my hair, then what the heck am I doing? I know my identity is in Christ. He defines who I am. Not my appearance. Much less, my hair! How pathetic! When I realized I've been placing my identity in this hairstyle that I've always had, I started to feel like it was honestly going to be healthy for me to change it. To let go of that part of me and realize that throughout any changes I go through in my life, my identity still only lies in Jesus Christ! It was helpful to know that even if I ended up hating the new style, it was just hair! For a girl who has always hated change, this was something I now needed to do.

I had no idea how I would look with short hair, because like I said, I was a kid the last time my hair was short or light. But I loved knowing that regardless of how it looked, it was just hair! It isn't who I am. But I truly did end up loving the change, and I'm so glad I did it! I had no idea how much I needed it. My hair feels thick and healthy, and is so much easier to wash. Not to mention the fact that my husband just loves it!! Literally every time he walked past me for the next week, he told me how pretty I was. Since words of affirmation is my love language, this was FANTASTIC lol. He said he had no idea I could get any prettier, but I did. What an absolute sweetheart, right?!?!?!? We both always wanted to me to hang onto my long hair, but now we're both so glad I cut it off! I guess it just proves that sometimes, change is a good thing. Even when it's scary.

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