Is Secret P*rn Use Infidelity?

In this episode of Therapists' Take, we dive into the controversial and often painful topic of betrayal through secret pornography use. Is it a form of infidelity? How does it compare to physical affairs? While some see pornography as a private, harmless activity, others view it as a deep violation of trust. We’ll explore the emotional and relational impact, the complexities of secrecy, and the evolving challenges of digital intimacy in today’s world.
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Key Discussion Points:
🔹 03:30 - Is Secret Porn Use a Betrayal? – Examining different perspectives on trust, emotional impact, and whether secrecy itself constitutes infidelity.

🔹 08:50 - Porn vs. Physical Infidelity – Understanding the psychological and relational differences (and overlaps) between pornography use and in-person affairs.

🔹 15:00 - The Gray Areas in Relationships – What happens when couples have different expectations about pornography, and how can they navigate these differences?

🔹 24:54 - Transparency in the Digital Age – How can partners foster honesty, set boundaries, and adapt to a world where online sexual content is more accessible than ever?
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Book: Always Turned On by Rob Weiss - https://amzn.to/4hBnarm
Book: Pornland by Gail Dines - https://amzn.to/4iAUHmT
Book: Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson - https://amzn.to/4iFLAS0
Book: Wired for Intimacy by William Struthers - https://amzn.to/4lbJlaL
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