Choosing A Spouse in Islam | Sh. Ammar Alshukry

Sh. Ammar Alshukry explores essential Islamic teachings and practical insights on building a strong, spiritually grounded relationship. Addressing common misconceptions, this talk provides valuable advice on communication, conflict resolution, and the importance of aligning personal values with Islamic principles.

Drawing from the Qur'an, Sunnah, and real-life examples, Sh. Ammar Alshukry highlights the role of deen, character, and compatibility in choosing the right spouse. Learn how to navigate cultural differences, overcome decision-making challenges, and ensure your marriage reflects the love, mercy, and responsibility Allah emphasizes.

CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Importance of Communication Before Marriage
01:48 - Making a Decision to Get Married
05:31 - Guidelines for Choosing a Spouse
12:47 - Beauty Standards in Marriage
17:55 - Non-Negotiables vs Negotiables in a Spouse
19:24 - Importance of Cultural Background in Marriage
27:21 - Making Dua for a Specific Person
28:36 - Choosing Not to Get Married
30:55 - Interfaith Marriage: Muslim Men and Christian/Jewish Women
35:21 - Advice for Women Over 30 Facing Rejection
37:20 - Ways to Get Married
38:58 - Reasons to Consider Not Getting Married
42:27 - Identifying Red Flags in a Potential Spouse
44:35 - Recognizing Controlling Behavior
51:30 - Understanding Stinginess in Relationships
57:45 - Starting on the Right Foot in Marriage
01:01:50 - Ending on the Right Foot in Marriage
01:03:27 - Best Timing for Marriage
01:05:50 - Healthy Expectations in a Marriage