Being Lost vs Not Knowing What To Do

Being Lost vs Not Knowing What to Do

When you're lost, it's a great time to slowwww dowwwwwn. Settle. It's time for some Creatieve Being. See what it's like to become comfortable with the fog. Tolerating "Not Knowing" is a great skill to have here. Instead, you can get figuring out what the "Beautiful Question" is (as David Whyte calls it). Once you have that, sitting with it and listening for the answer, without rushing, will help you vision in a new way in the fog. So you can find that North Star (for ex. - where you want to take your business next, whether you want to stay in your relationship, or city etc.)

When you don't know what to do - think of yourself as a scientist. Now is a time for Creative Doing. Research, find out as much information as you can on your own. Then, come up with some best ideas and options, and then start experimenting as you learn which ones work best, or which elements work best. Failure is your friend. Iterate. When you need to cross that river, do you build a bridge, is there wood around? And tools? Do you wade in? How fast is the river moving? How deep is it? Do you have friends around who can help you? What kinds of mini tests can you creatively come up with to find out more information on your way to making the decision on what to do? Happy researching :)

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