Sheila Romanski twice survived breast cancer | autologous stem cell transplant | lumpectomy

In this deeply inspiring episode, we’re joined by Sheila Romanski, a two-time breast cancer survivor and the founder of the non-profit Crystal Roses, which supports those battling cancer. Sheila’s story spans over two decades and includes a diagnosis of Stage 1A breast cancer, a Stage 4 triple-negative breast cancer recurrence, a double mastectomy, and ultimately, reconstruction surgery — all while raising four children and fighting for her life.

It All Began With a Mammogram…

In 1996, at just 36 years old — long before routine mammograms were recommended for women that age — Sheila’s doctor insisted she undergo one. That decision likely saved her life. A 2cm tumor was discovered, leading to a lumpectomy and radiation treatment. At the time, Sheila had no symptoms and didn’t perform regular self-examinations for breast cancer — something she now urges all women to do, regardless of age.

The First Battle: 1996-1997

What seemed like a successful recovery took a dark turn when, just a year later, Sheila discovered a lump near her collarbone. The breast cancer had metastasized to her shoulder. This time, she underwent four rounds of chemotherapy, more radiation, and an autologous stem cell transplant using her own stem cells. It was a grueling four-month process, made even more challenging as she juggled treatment with raising four small children.

Stage 4 Triple Negative Breast Cancer Diagnosis: 2008

After more than a decade of remission, a routine mammogram once again revealed trouble — this time micro-calcifications in the same breast. Sheila was diagnosed with Stage 4 triple negative infiltrating ductal carcinoma, a particularly aggressive and hard-to-treat form of breast cancer. She chose to undergo a double mastectomy followed by a second round of aggressive chemotherapy.

Reconstruction & The DIEP Flap Journey

Determined to regain control, Sheila explored DIEP flap reconstruction, a complex procedure that uses skin and tissue from another part of the body. However, her surgeon required she lose 20 pounds before proceeding. It took nearly 10 years of perseverance. By 2021, thirteen years after her mastectomy, her reconstructive surgery was finally completed — though not with DIEP flap, as her original surgeon no longer performed it.

Crystal Roses: Giving Back Through Compassion

Today, Sheila Romanski is thriving and has been declared NED (No Evidence of Disease). She devotes her energy to Crystal Roses, a non-profit dedicated to supporting others on their cancer journeys. Sheila believes in the power of community, faith, and early detection — and shares her story to encourage others never to delay screenings or ignore symptoms.

Sheila’s Key Messages:

Don’t wait — perform regular self-examinations.

Insist on screenings like mammograms, even if you’re “too young” by current guidelines.

Surround yourself with support — whether friends, family, or faith communities.

Ask questions and explore every treatment option, from lumpectomy, mastectomy, and lymph node dissection to chemotherapy, radiation treatment, and newer reconstructive techniques.

Resources:
Support Group: Crystal Roses
Visit: https://www.crystalroseshelps.com

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