Suggested Title: 6 Habits You Must Quit to Stop Being Used by People (Biblical Boundaries)

If you feel drained after every conversation or notice that people only call when they need something, this message is for you. Many of us aren't surrounded by friends; we are surrounded by takers. You keep giving until you end up empty, not because you are weak, but because you have developed habits that quietly invite people to treat you like an unlimited resource.
In this video, we explore why love without boundaries becomes self-destruction and how God is making you wiser, not colder, in this season.

In this video, you will learn:
The 6 habits that quietly train people to use you.
What God is trying to heal underneath these patterns.
How to replace them with biblical boundaries that honor your calling.
A one-sentence boundary to shut down manipulation without guilt.
Video Chapters:
0:00 - Are you an unlimited resource?
0:45 - What you will learn today
1:10 - Habit 1: Over-explaining your "No"
3:00 - Habit 2: Responding to every "Urgent" message
4:50 - Habit 3: Being available when you're not respected
6:40 - Habit 4: Trying to save everyone (Emotional Rescuing)
8:30 - Habit 5: The addiction to approval (People Pleasing)
10:20 - Habit 6: Never asking for reciprocity
12:10 - The Climax: Becoming Rooted
13:30 - 5 Practical Steps to start today
15:30 - Prayer for healing and boundaries

Scriptures Mentioned:
Matthew 5:37 - Letting your "No" be "No"
Luke 5:16 & Mark 1:35 - The Jesus model of withdrawing
Proverbs 4:23 - Guarding your heart
Matthew 11:28-30 - Carrying a light yoke
Galatians 1:10 - Seeking God’s approval over man’s

Declare this in the comments: "I love people, but I protect my assignment."

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