My Wife’s Rules: A Female Led Relationship Agreement (Before Cuckolding)

Most people have heard the phrase “she wears the pants in that family”—but what does that actually mean? In this video, I share our personal journey into understanding and embracing a Female-Led Relationship (FLR), and how it differs from (and sometimes overlaps with) femdom dynamics.

From casual Level 1 FLRs to deeper Level 4 structures, I unpack the misconceptions, the emotional growth, and the practical tools that helped us define our own path—including why we chose a flexible manual over a rigid contract. Whether you’re curious about FLRs, navigating kink and consent, or simply exploring new ways to strengthen your relationship, this video offers candid insights and real-life examples.

Topics covered:

• FLR vs. Femdom: What’s the difference?
• Why dominance doesn’t always equal kink
• Creating contracts vs. building a relationship manual
• Navigating roles in front of children
• Communication, consent, and evolving expectations
• How our dynamic improved intimacy and connection

Every couple is different. This is our story—messy, honest, and still evolving. If you’re exploring your own dynamic or just curious about what FLRs can look like in real life, I hope this helps you feel seen, supported, and inspired.