Ep 5: Pornography to Wives | Lost in Pornoland

The effects of pornography on marital relationships.

Series on 'Science behind Addictions & how to overcome them specifically Porn Addiction', the series will be written and narrated by brother Wael Ibrahim, a renowned public speaker and published author. The series will be animated and illustrated by us and made available to every single human being for free, In sha Allah.

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Wives who seek counseling regarding their husbands’ addiction to Pornography are no longer considering porn as an innocent habit that all men participates in. And the reason is simple, They have now realized the dangerous effects that pornography had caused to their marital relationships. They have now noticed that their husbands have been treating them just like sex objects for their own pleasures. Not only that, but they have also noticed that their husbands have been requesting from them to engage in unnatural and unusual forms of degrading sexual acts that they were not used to before. And that is what Pornography does. It twist our understanding of the real marital intimacy between spouses. The problem now is that most men who view pornography, if not all believe that this is normal and that women actually enjoy this type of sexual activity including anal intercourse and causing them to feel pain through beating and slapping and so on. That’s what Pornography teaches and this is how the marital relationship is ruined.

For all women who are listening to me right now. Remember this, remember this very very very well. If your husbands have requested from you to engage in an unusual, unnatural sexual activity then this perhaps is your indication that he’s been watching Pornography and most likely he’s been addicted to it.

The twisted form of sexual intimacy promoted by Pornography, could lead to dangerous crimes against women as well, including rape, torture and emotional harm because this is exactly what they show on their production. And so a person who constantly watches these scenes may end up acting out what he’s been watching, leading him to a lifetime behind bars.

What’s worse. Men who have resorted to Pornography and masturbation thought at first that Pornography is a door for them to enhance their sexual abilities. But in no long time they’ve also discovered that they started favoring porn and masturbation over real marital relationships. Their brains have become conditioned that sexual pleasure is only attainable through porn and masturbation. As a result. many of them have suffered from what is called erectile dysfunction, or the inability of performing sexually with a partner. Imagine this with me, a person who found Pornography enjoyable because he is sexually excited may end up being prevented completely, from having sex at all! , I believe I believe you don’t want to end up in this condition.

As you can see. These problems are serious and very damaging to marriages and marital relationships. Not only that, it could become a very harmful to women’s self-esteem and self-worth. Because when their husbands are unable to perform sexually, in most cases, most wives will be blaming themselves for not being attractive enough. What could make the situation even more worse, if the wives have reached to what we consider as an old age.

The damaging of marital relationships caused by Pornography is real. But what has been mentioned is sufficient for you to quit and seek some help, I believe is this more than enough to take a decision, So what’s your decision?